What You Should Do
from the be-yourself,-do-what-your-true-self-demands dept
Okay, people. You keep asking me, “Mike, but what should we do?” I am going to condescend to you now, about what you should do.
The only resistance worth a damn is the one where you stop calculating the odds and start living your truth without reservation. What separates the merely clever from the genuinely courageous isn’t tactical brilliance but moral clarity—the willingness to act as if your conscience matters more than your comfort. The irony, which our enemies will never grasp, is that this apparent recklessness creates the most robust safety net imaginable. While they isolate themselves in gilded bunkers of power, we forge bonds of mutual aid that no authority can sever.
History doesn’t remember those who hedged their bets or preserved their options; it remembers those who, when facing the abyss, decided that some principles cannot be compromised regardless of consequence. This isn’t martyrdom—it’s the highest form of self-interest, recognizing that a life of calculated moral compromise isn’t worth protecting in the first place.
So abandon your clever exit strategies and risk calculations. Your most authentic self is also your most powerful weapon, and in times like these, it’s the only currency guaranteed to hold its value. Even beyond the span of our lifetimes. The only currency that can.
The truth is, the question “what should we do?” often masks a deeper hesitation—a search for the perfect, risk-free action that will somehow satisfy both our conscience and our comfort. But that’s precisely the trap. There is no algorithm for moral action in immoral times. There is no checklist that, once completed, absolves you of the responsibility to keep acting, keep choosing, keep standing for something.
Think of it as venture capital for civilization. Just as the greatest financial returns come from identifying inflection points where maximum risk meets maximum opportunity, the greatest moral impact comes when you invest your full self at precisely the moment when everything seems most precarious. By placing your “social capital” on authentic moral action without hedging for reputation, wealth, or safety, you’re making the highest-leverage bet possible.
Because here’s the thing: if you have social capital, even if you are the most financially poor person in the world, you know you’ll always have a safe place to sleep. So the investment profile is quite good. And you don’t even need to spend your conscience to invest!
This isn’t about grand heroic gestures. It’s about the daily choice to be fully present in your own moral reality. It’s about deciding that, whatever comes, you’ll be able to face yourself in the mirror. It’s about recognizing that in times of systemic failure, the only reliable security comes not from institutions or financial reserves, but from the bonds we forge through authentic moral action and mutual aid.
So what should you do? Stop asking that question as if there’s a single answer that applies to everyone. Start asking instead: What does my most authentic self demand in this moment? What action would make me feel whole rather than diminished? What truth needs speaking that only I can articulate in my unique way?
Then do that thing. Not once, not as a performance, but consistently. Not with an eye toward results, but with a commitment to process. Not because it will necessarily “work,” but because it’s the only thing that will allow you to recognize yourself when this is all over.
The revolution isn’t coming someday. It’s happening right now, in millions of individual decisions to align actions with deepest values. The resistance isn’t elsewhere. It’s in you, waiting to be lived rather than merely contemplated.
That’s what you should do. But you already knew that, if you’re honest with yourself.
P.S. And no matter the circumstances in which I meet my ultimate fate, know that, that I know that it eats them alive inside. And that I died contemptuously amused by their internal torture. That deep down, they are the greatest cowards of all: afraid of the truth.
Mike Brock is a former tech exec who was on the leadership team at Block. Originally published at his Notes From the Circus.
Filed Under: activism, authenticity, donald trump, elon musk, resistance




Comments on “What You Should Do”
You don’t need to be a great figure like Martin Luther King Jr or a Malcolm X to be revolutionary or even wait for one. In a world where the government is cruel and oppressive, being kind and decent is just enough. Even to people that might not deserve it. Because right now, kindness and gentleness are revolutionary.
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The one thing people tend to forget about kindness is that being kind isn’t the same thing as being nice.
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No doubt. Kinda reminds me of Into the Woods, where there’s a clear distinction between being good (doing things regardless of they benefit you) and being nice (where it can be superficial and transactional).
I still think it’s still worth it to be kind, even if people view it as nice.
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Being nice can be a bit slimy. It’s okay to be nice to the Make America German Again crowd.
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“Be nice” in the sense of refraining from spitting in their face.
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“Be nice” while they are grinding their boots into your face?
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“My father had taught me to be nice first, because you can always be mean later, but once you’ve been mean to someone, they won’t believe the nice anymore. So be nice, be nice, until it’s time to stop being nice, then destroy them.” — from A Stroke of Midnight by Laurell K. Hamilton
You be “nice” in the sense that you give assholes a little leeway—just a little!—to stop being assholes. If they don’t stop…well, then it’s time to teach them that they should stop being assholes in your presence. If that means using violence? So be it. But you always give assholes the chance to back off first. That leeway is niceness; the (likely painful) lesson that comes if they don’t take that leeway is kindness.
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We passed time to stop being nice several years ago. It’ll probably take y’all another several years to catch up to that plot point though.
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Other than my advocacy for the use of physical violence only in defense of self or others, I’m down with no longer being nice to these assholes.
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It’s also okay to tell them they disgust you and to lose your number.
“Just be yourself” is a statement that prefaces great moments.
Either one’s greatest triumphs or most memorable fuckups.
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That’s some deep fuckin wisdom.
That’s a lot of words to say “There isn’t anything meaningful you can do right now.”
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Depends on what you mean by “meaningful”. Do you want people to take some grand unified action at one place, in one moment, to be a giant revolution that overthrows the government and fixes all the problems Trump has created in the blink of an eye? Or do you want people to help each other survive this hellscape as best they can, even if those actions won’t make it to the news and all that happens is a couple of people manage to feel a little better about the world and each other?
If you’re waiting for The Revolution™, you’ve already bought into a narrative that said Revolution™ is both possible and capable of solving every problem. The real revolution isn’t going to happen overnight, and it isn’t going to happen in the streets—it’s going to happen in the quiet parts of our lives where we treat someone with more kindness than they expect (or deserve) and expect nothing in return.
That said: You can still call your representatives, and you can still go to town halls and public government meetings to have your voice heard. In fact, going to local government meetings is probably the best thing you could do right now. It’s far easier to move the needle at the local level than it is at the national level—especially when the person sitting at the head of the national table doesn’t give a shit about anything.
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Best advice I’ve heard so far! Get involved in your local community, support candidates who mirror your views, but more than anything, don’t give up! This is a marathon, not a sprint.
For me, as an expat, I support American Citizens Abroad because the issues that affect me are VERY different from those of people living in the US. I provide financial support, but more importantly, I also write to my senators and congressman on a regular basis about the issues that ACA is supporting. We, as the BestNetTech community, could similarly build a list of topics that are important to us and organize campaigns on those issues. I would gladly participate.
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Something else I’d like to add: If you contact your reps whenever you want them to vote a certain way on something and they end up voting that way, contact them again to thank them for their vote. Little things like that tell reps that people are paying attention—and that they’re grateful for the reps doing the right thing.
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Dibs On The Podium
Maybe you could organize an insurrection and storm Nancy Pelosi’s office?
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I’m surprised you didn’t suggest assaulting her husband with a hammer, given how Trump has mocked that particular assault multiple times over the years. Or is that one step too far for you?
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It’s several steps not far enough for him. When people tell you who they are, believe them.
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No, Koby. That’s your side’s playbook.
For those who need to read more on this idea of “what do”, and those who need to be loudly hopeless in public, there is always the clarity of A R Moxon as well.
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And those who recognized what was happening years and wasted our time trying to get liberals to pay attention.
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But we kept the decorum, and therefore won the moral victory. And that is what really matters.
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So tell us tough guy, what are you gonna do? Keep having unproductive meltdowns on the internet?
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I’m gonna kick back, and watch out for mine.
But you’re right. It’s much better to loudly pretend nothing is wrong on the internet.
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I guess you are the one pretending here because how can you “agree” with something I never said or alluded to.
It seems the only thing you are good for is complaining on the internet that other people aren’t doing something instead of doing something productive yourself.
So, what are you going to do? Impotently complain some more?
'What the hell was I thinking?!'
Always strive to live a life where future you isn’t constantly wanting to punch past you in the face for being such a terrible person, whether that be by holding and expressing horrid beliefs or by sitting on your ass as the world burned down around you because ‘It won’t affect me‘.
The problem is polarization, right? Our government has been largely in gridlock for some time now, AT BEST, and everyone complains about “partisan politics”. Perhaps we need to examine the source, instead of whining about the result. We’re told we have TWO real options every election. Could it be that we need more than that? I submit that democracy involves more than a coin flip. The two “only real choice” parties hold a virtual monopoly over our electoral system, and have turned the process into an INDUSTRY, aggravated by the insanity of “Citizens United” and various other corrupt decisions by our highest court. We desperately need election reform, but that’s asking the corrupt to derail their own gravy train, so that will clearly never happen. Politics shouldn’t be a BUSINESS, yet here we are. The solution I see would be to ban ALL donations and require all political candidates to draw equally from a pool of money set up for that purpose. Such a fund even already exists. You may recall that little check box on your income tax form. Did you know that nobody USES that money right now? They’d have to follow RULES if they did. Far simpler and more lucrative to simply squeeze their constituents (and others) for money instead.
I think the primaries all need to be held the same day, like the general election. Why should someone in Iowa get to choose who I get to vote for? I even have the perfect day picked out- April First. That would provide needed context to the event. I’d also be in favor of all candidates being required to wear fluffy wigs, big shoes, and red rubber noses so that everyone is clear on who and what they are, but that could be a step too far.
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How many other major democracies chose our odd system? Maybe we need to adopt a parliamentary system.
Nice
The one thing people tend to forget about kindness is that being kind isn’t the same thing as being nice.
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